- Don't: Call, email, text or visit your ex in a moment of weakness
Because you initiated the breakup, your friends may not know that you're hurting.
You'll want to choose a least three friends who know you well enough to know when you need comfort versus when you need a kick in the pants.
- Second-guess your decision
The truth is, you can make yourself crazy second-guessing your decision. But what's done is done. You had your reasons, made your decision, and now it's time to accept and move on.
- See your breakup for what it really is
- Don't: Badmouth your ex
By applying the lessons you learned from your last relationship, and refining what you want out of life and eventually from your perfect partner, you have the chance to reclaim yourself and become the ultimate breakup rock star. So go ahead, rock on!
